Confident Conversation [antikvár]

Introduction Have you ever not known what to say in a particular situation? Have you ever wanted to say something but felt too self-conscious? Have you ever been invited to an important dinner or a party and wondered: What will I say? What if I sound stupid? What if there's a lull in the conversation - do I just sit there or keep talking? Well, you're not alone. As a communications specialist, I have seen even the boldest businessmen turn pale at the thought of attending a black-tie affair, speaking at a board meeting or just meeting new people. I have watched people cry at the mere thought of a new social interaction. According to the Book of Lists, the number one fear in society today is the fear of talking in front of other people. It's not so surprising. After all, at school we are taught many new things, but nobody teaches us how to communicate with one another. I have been fortunate enough to work with thousands of people, from the most severely handicapped to the hottest stars in Hollywood - like Dustin Hoffman, whom I helped prepare for his role in Tootsie, and Julio Iglesias. I have also helped Swedish actor Dolph Lundgren and French actor Christopher Lambert speak with American accents. But everybody has the power to become a terrific communicator - not just stars. It's a matter of confronting your fears in different situations and learning to feel good about yourself. Communication is not just verbal. Good communication is visual, sensual and aural. It's not being afraid to be enthusiastic and spontaneous. It's not being afraid to express yourself or to reach out to others.