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IntroductionA week after our daughter Lauren was born, my wife Bonnie and I were completely exhausted. Each night Lauren kept waking us. Bonnie had been torn in the delivery and was taking painkillers. She could barely walk. After five days of staying home to help, I went back to work. She seemed to be getting better.While I was away she ran out of pain pills. Instead of caUing me at the office, she asked one of my brothers, who was visiting, to purchase more. My brother, however;, did not return with the pills. Consequently, she spent the whole day in pain, taking care of a newborn.I had no idea that her day had been so awful. When I returned home she was very upset. I misinterpreted the cause of her distress and thought she was blaming me.She said, "I've been in pain all day I ran out of pills. I've been stranded in bed and nobody cares!"I said defensively, "Why didn't you call me?"She said, "I asked your brother, but he forgot! I've been waiting for him to return all day. What am I supposed to do? I can barely walk. I feel so deserted!"At this point I exploded. My fuse was also very short that day. I was angry that she hadn't called me. I was furious that she was blaming me when I didn't even know she was in pain. After exchanging a few harsh words, I headed for the door. I was tired.